Discipline Lovingly

Our church, Bitlmpore Baptist, has been doing an awesome series called My Crazy Family Life. Sundays sermon was devoted to parenting and I would like to share some of the things discussed. This really hits home for mommy's and daddy's, and even for those who will be parents in the future.

The lesson was based on the book of Proverbs, which is a great book of the bible as a source for parenting.

YOU are responsible for training your kids. Church programs are all good and well, but that is just an added bonus on top of what you are teaching your kids at home.

Three tips for training your kids up right and in the Lord:

1: START EARLY
Proverbs 22:6 says "train up a child in the way that he should go and when he is older he will not turn from it."
The earlier we start training our kids, the more likely they are to be succesful as teens and adults. A parent who prayers over their children, reads them bible stories, and teaches them daily about the Lord will see results as the child grows. The earlier they have knowledge of Christs love, the more likely it will stay with them as they get older.

2: DISCIPLINE LOVINGLY
I know there is much controversy over spanking a child. But, "the rod" is a source of discipline and is definitely neccessary at times.
Proverbs 22: 15 says "Folly is bound up in the heart of a child, but the rod of discipline will drive it far from him." this is not an act of hatred or anger, but will rid foolishness (folly). Make sure it is something you do in love, not when your aggrivated or mad. There are 3 tools when it comes to discipline: 1-the rod: spanking is only for direct rebellion (not childishness). 2-Talk about it: explain what the child has done wrong, and make sure they understand why. 3-Restoration of Fellowship: remind your child how much you love them.

3: HONOR PARENTS
Make sure your child knows the value of parenthood. You, as an adult, also have to practice honoring your parents. This doesnt mean not making appropriate boundaries, but place great value on those relatinships.

Proverbs 3:11, 12 "My son, dont despise the Lord's discipline and do not resent his rebuke, because the Lord disciplines those he loves, as a father the son he delights in."

Successful parenting begins and ends with your relationship with God. Take His word, and fabricate it into your life and the way you raise your child.
This sermon made me think, and want to put into practice all of these things (which mostly we already have done).

To watch the sermon click here.